by Robert McMillen | Brokenness
Shame is one of the most powerful and painful human emotions we can experience. As someone who has struggled with shame, I want to share what I’ve seen and learned through it. Here is what we know about SHAME from various studies done on it. About 20% of adults...
by Robert McMillen | Brokenness
Read in: 4 minutesIn my marriage I regularly want to see God change my spouse. That’s because I am strongly aware of the areas where she needs to change. And I believe that if she changes, then things will get much better in our relationship. Change My Spouse...
by Robert McMillen | Brokenness
One of the consistent things I’ve noticed about myself (and others) is a strong need to feel like we are in control. It doesn’t matter if it is our time, our diet, our weight, our habits, our health, our money, our future, our security, our spouse, our...
by Robert McMillen | Brokenness
It’s time to discuss the weirdness in marriage. So I will start with my own. Over the years Lou Ann has sent me to get things at the grocery store. What she noticed was that I came back with the things on the list, and more. In fact I would buy two things...
by Robert McMillen | Brokenness
All of us struggle with insecurities in life. But I’m surprised at how many people I meet who are unaware of how these insecurities impact their daily life. While I feel compassion for the past hurts that lead to these insecurities, I’m puzzled why...
by Robert McMillen | Brokenness
I want to highlight a danger that I’ve been seeing in struggling marriages. It’s something that is often tolerated in Christian marriages but isn’t an example of biblical love. God’s Love is Not Controlling To illustrate I want to start with...
