Do You use Avoidance in Conflict?

Do You use Avoidance in Conflict?

Conflict in marriage is challenging.  And most of us have an autopilot approach that we take when we respond to conflict. Perhaps you are the person who likes to choose Avoidance. This response can be good or bad, so let’s look deeper. Conflict and Avoiding...
Why Commitment Trumps Love!

Why Commitment Trumps Love!

Commitment is an unappreciated part of marriage. The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this: love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love. – Stephen Kendrick About 42% of first...
Let the Marital Games Begin!

Let the Marital Games Begin!

There are many “Marital Games” we can play in marriage.  By Marital Games I mean there are things we do in our relationship where each of us takes on a role and certain behaviors toward the other.  The result is always a low-level of of friction and...