The RealUs

Staying Real About Marriage™

We All need encouragement

We need truth.  We need hope.

We need like-minded couples who see Marriage as an area for growth.

Who desire to be more like Jesus every day.

So, our mission is to encourage you and ourselves.

Join us!

Marriage is challenging

Take two idealistic individuals.  Add life-long commitment.  Attempt to add intimacy.
Merge in children, careers, finances, fears and hopes.
You will find struggles and fireworks and meaning and joy.
We don’t run from reality.
This is the Real Us.

Marriage is worth it

Enduring Marriage is amazing.  It is a place for Joy.
It starves selfishness and develops maturity.
And we decide if it is for better or worse.
Yours can be a Great Marriage.
Without any hiding.
This is the Real Us.

Check Out our Marriage Blog!

re|engage™

re|engage™ is a marriage enrichment program.  Marriages in any condition can benefit!  re|engage™ examines God’s design for marriage and applies principles from the Bible to guide couples toward growth in their relationship with each other.

We have found it to be a powerful program for restoring marriage relationships and helping couples reconnect, reignite and resurrect their love.

We have led couples in the re|engage™ marriage enrichment program for over 10 years.  Our materials on this website are organized around the 8 areas of focus for re|engage™.

re|engage™™ is sponsored by hundreds of local churches around the world.  Couples attend weekly.

Each evening starts with a “large” group session with a marriage testimony or teaching.  Then couples move to an “open” group for more conversation on a specific topic.   Eventually you move to a “closed” group, investing 16 weeks with other couples working through eight topic areas.

SYMBIS

Symbis and Symbis+ are Relational Assessments for Engaged, Married and Previously-Married Couples.

They provide a personalized road map to making marriage everything it was meant to be.

Developed over 20 years ago, by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, and based on their “Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts” book, SYMBIS helps couples beat the odds.

As Certified SYMBIS Facilitators we work with couples to do marriage mentoring and evaluating the results of the
SYMBIS Assessment.

Engaged & Planning?

Great!  Then you need all of the support you can get in building a great relationship.

Having a perfect wedding won’t prepare you for a better marriage. But SYMBIS will!  So invest in your relationship now!

Married & more?

SYMBIS+ is for married couples!

Most married couples wish there was a way to to deepen their understanding of themselves and their spouse.   An opportunity to discuss the deeper things of the heart.

Take the SYMBIS+ assessment and we will have you talking about who you are, why you are and how each of you together can be a stronger couple.

Preparing for a Blended Marriage?

SYMBIS+ is for couples considering remarriage too!

Strengthen your upcoming marriage by deepening your understanding of yourselves and future spouse.  SYMBIS+ offers a an in-depth opportunity to discuss the deeper things of the heart.

Take the SYMBIS+ assessment and we will have you talking about who you are, why you are and how each of you together can be a stronger couple.

About the RealUS

Married for 40+ years, we are native Texans who love seeing marriages thrive.  Our story includes many of the same challenges other couples face.

We attend Watermark Church in Plano.

For over 20 years we have been working with couples in the area of Marriage Coaching and Enrichment.

 

– Rob & Lou Ann McMillen

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