The Real Us

Deepening Marriage Intimacy.

Helping Couples Grow.

 

 

Your Marriage Intimacy Matters!

 

Marriage was designed for intimacy. But for many it becomes an agreement between a man and a woman to cohabitate.

That's sad because marriage is designed to build an intimacy beyond what many of us have ever experienced.

In our hearts we each have secret hopes for this type of deep intimacy.  An intimacy that is more than sex and more than the pursuit of pleasure.  It is an intimacy that is warm, comfortable and safe. One that gives our heart a home.

This type of marriage intimacy calls to us from deep within.  To make our spouse our best friend, our confidante, our soulmate. One who, though imperfect, will share with us, care for us and be there for us.

At some point, you both stood together and made a life-changing choice of commitment.  And you knew that the pursuit of intimacy could be costly, risky, and complex. We made these pledges because our deep desire was to have a  spouse who loved us and knew the Real Us.

 

So, if you are seeking deeper marriage intimacy, we welcome you!
But it was a step of faith.  Investing ourselves in a relationship that could either be the best or worst decision of our lives.
For true believers, we knew that our choice to marry was no accident and that God was part of the relationship.  We knew that He defined the concept of marriage, this crazy human relationship closer than family and lifelong in length.
Today, you know marriage is a relationship that  challenges who we are and who we want to be.  And it still holds out the promise of being known intimately by at least one other person in this life.

 


Here you will find what we have learned during our 30+ years focusing on couples. 17+ years as Re:Engage facilitators, 5+ years as SYMBIS Facilitators and almost 50 years of working in our own marriage.  While we are not "professionals", but we have walked the walk and experienced the lessons of life and marriage. Please read this too.

 

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The SYMBIS Assessment is for couples who want to learn more about their relationship based on marriage research.

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Thousands of couples have benefited from attending ReEngage, a nationwide marriage enrichment program that benefits couples at any stage in their marriage. 

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