The Real Us


SYMBIS Assessments, RE|Engage and Marriage Help!

Your Marriage is challenging

Take two idealistic individuals.  Add life-long commitment.  Attempt to add intimacy.
Merge in children, careers, finances, fears and hopes.
You will find struggles and fireworks and meaning and joy.
We don’t run from reality.
We want to be the Real Us.

Your Marriage is worth it

An enduring Marriage is amazing.  It is a place for Joy.
It starves selfishness and develops maturity.
And we decide if it is for better or worse.
Yours can be a Great Marriage.
Without any hiding.
That’s the Real Us.

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Want to invest in your relationship?

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Marriage on the rocks?

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About US

Married for 43+ years, we first met in High School during the 70’s.

Amazingly, we managed to survive  bell-bottoms, Nehru jackets, Woodstock, Vietnam and our own immaturity.

The story of our marriage is not a pretty fairytale but a challenging adventure that has included many doubts and struggles.  Through it all we have persevered, learned, changed and developed more intimacy.

For over 20 years we have been working with couples in the area of Marriage Coaching and Enrichment.

We currently attend Watermark Church in Plano where we have served as volunteer leaders in the re|engage™ Marriage ministry for 12 years.

How can we help you in your  marriage journey?


– Rob & Lou Ann McMillen

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